Kids and social media: Online safety tips every parent should know

As connected as kids are today, it can be a full-time job for parents to know everything they’re doing online.

Many kids may seem comfortable with technology and the internet, but you might forget that they’re still learning and may not be prepared to spot the risks and pitfalls of being constantly connected — especially when it comes to social media.

Here are some helpful tips so you and your children can enjoy social media more safely.

Communicate with your kids about social media safety

Talk to your kids. Have conversations about how to avoid strangers, how to prevent revealing too much about themselves, and general internet safety. Teach them about some of the social media safety tips in this article to help them learn about what could be red flags. And encourage them to come to you for guidance when questionable content or situations arise.

Social media safety tips for kids and parents 

1. Educate yourself about social media. Start by finding out what kind of apps and sites your child is interested in. Read app reviews, age limits, and fine print.
2. Get a head start. If you don’t have an account on the social media site your child wants to use, get one. Teach yourself the ins and outs of the site. Make sure you know exactly what they can and cannot do, and decide what they should and shouldn’t do.
3. Teach your kid about posting on sites. Deleting a post does not mean it’s permanently gone. All their online posts, comments, likes, and shares are a part of their digital footprint. Posting inappropriate content could impact their online reputation. It may not seem like a big deal now, but it could potentially hurt them when they get older and enter University or the job market.
4. Let your kids know the importance of privacy. Many social media sites request names, dates of birth, school names, and suburb. Teach your children how much personal information is too much information online. And remember that these types of personally identifying information, if exposed in a data breach, could make them vulnerable to identity theft.

Monitoring your kids’ social media accounts

You keep an eye on your child in the real world. It’s smart to be aware of their digital life, too. Here are a few tips for monitoring your child’s social media accounts.

1. Most apps have an age requirement. Enforce it. 
2. Check the privacy setting on apps regularly. Companies often update their privacy policies. Make sure you read the fine print.
3. Consider using a trusted security suite with parental controls on your child’s device. Enable all safety features that prevent children from accidently being exposed to inappropriate content online. 
4. Make sure you change the settings on their devices to ask your permission before installing an app.
5. Learn their language. Kids have a language of their own when it comes to communicating online. Make sure you know what they’re talking about.

Helpful information about social networking sites frequented by teens

Here are some popular social media sites and the facts you should know about them.

1. Instagram
Minimum age: 13 years
Users can snap, edit, and share photos and short videos. Privacy settings allow content to be private or public. The platform allows sharing and commenting. As long as the account is private, no one can view or comment on a post. Risks include sharing inappropriate content among friends and sharing location publicly by using the location tags.

2. WhatsApp
Minimum age: 16 years
A widely popular messaging app, WhatsApp allows users to send text messages, audio messages, videos, and photos to one or many people with no message limits or fees. It limits access to only those people in your contact list. But people in a group chat who aren’t on your contact list can communicate with you.

3. Snapchat
Minimum age: 13 years
A popular photo-sharing app, Snapchat lets users share pictures and videos for a preset length of time. Content will self-destruct when that time runs out. But keep in mind, people can still take screenshots and save the content. It gives a false sense of permanent deletion. The Discover feature may allow kids to have access to inappropriate content.

4. Twitter
Minimum age: 13 years
A microblogging site that has the option to keep ‘tweets’ private or public. It can help teens keep up with their friends and favourite celebrities. Even though Twitter has the option to delete a tweet, the posted content could have been copied or stored.

5. Facebook
Minimum age: 13 years
This widely used social media app lets users share pictures, videos, and comments. It also has an instant messaging feature. Facebook helps teens catch up with friends, family and events.

Social media safety first

Here are some online safety tips to help your child minimise their exposure on social media.

• Know your network. Advise your child never to approve friend requests or add people that they don’t know in real life. Be sure they know never to meet anyone in person that they have only met online.

• Beware of imposters. Catfishing is a form of cyberstalking where the user sets up a fake profile and poses as someone else — often as another child — to try to engage contact with your child. Educate yourself about catfishing and cyberstalking, and then teach your child the red flags to look out for. Some of these include a limited number of photographs that look staged, asking for intimate photos or money, moving away from social media sites that are capable of catching catfishing. 

• Avoid questionnaires. “Free” giveaways, competitions, or online quizzes, can be tempting. They can also be phishing scams that will try to trick your children into giving away personal information or to allow hackers to try to inject malware onto their computers.

Educate yourself about phishing scams. If your child really wants to enter a competition, review it first and make sure it’s legitimate.

• Guard your location. Here’s a popular practice: personalising social media status updates with a live location taken from a mobile device’s GPS. Kids may have fun tagging posts or photos with a location, but parents may not want their child’s precise whereabouts broadcast to the world.

Here’s what you can do. Go into the settings menu on your child’s device and disable location services. This can be done just for specific apps while still allowing maps and other useful tools to access location data.

• Watch out for apps within sites. Your kid may want to use games and other third-party apps within social networking sites. But such apps can share or post information by default without you knowing about it. Good ones will state clearly that they’ll never post on your behalf. For lesser-known apps, consider whether you want your child to allow the apps to access social media accounts at all.

Set ground rules for your kids on social media

It’s no secret that teens and preteens are very active on social media, which can make it a challenge for parents to keep an eye on their social media activity. Setting up a few rules may help relieve some of the stress that comes with parenting and social media.

Here are a few tips for parents on kids’ internet safety

1. Keep the computer in a common area of your home — like your living room or kitchen. Have designated areas to use tablets and cell phones. This can help you monitor what sites your child is visiting. Plus, they may be less tempted to visit sites or perform activities they’re not allowed to if you’re nearby.
2. Only allow your child to access the internet for a limited, set time each day. Homework might be an exception. Social media sites can be a time waster, and you don’t want your child spending all of their free time online.
3. If your child wants to join a social media site, ensure that you have access to their account credentials. This can help you check for undesirable activities, such as adding suspicious friends, receiving questionable messages, or posting inappropriate content.
4. If your child is an older teen, they may think giving you full access to their account is too invasive. Consider a compromise. Require them to add you as a friend so you can monitor their activities via your own account.
5. Stick with age-appropriate sites. Most social networking sites such as Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram have an age minimum of 13 years. Some of these sites have additional security settings for minors, as well. Facebook, for example, automatically imposes stricter privacy settings for kids than for adults, so be sure your child is using the correct birth year upon signup. Twitter gives a user the option for an account to be private. In that case, the user approves all follow requests. 
6. And don’t forget, always review the privacy settings on your child’s profile.

Set parental controls with Norton Security Premium

Here’s a simple way to add an extra layer of online safety: consider signing up for Norton Security Premium. It shows you when your child registers for a social media account from their PC, and the name and age they use on their profile.

A robust security suite can give you insights into your child’s Android mobile device activities, too, letting you choose which apps they can use — and even allowing you to turn off access to Facebook or YouTube via Norton Family Premier parental controls. This way your child has the freedom to safely use the internet.

As a parent, you’ll be able to efficiently supervise your child’s Android device and know when to intervene.

Most kids will use the internet eventually. That’s why it’s smart to know the risks and benefits of social media. Your knowledge and supervision can help provide an extra layer of protection when they go online.